Today the Pope gave out his advice for being happy. Most of them are how to get along with others, which is more about the happiness lie than inner happiness. They are also very vague. (The Happiness Lie is the belief that things, people, or events make you happy or unhappy. Read more about it here.)
Below are the Pope’s ten tips translated from Spanish by the Catholic News Service, and my comments on them. Society is experiencing more and more suffering, as the rising stress, anxiety, depression, drug use, and suicide statistics show. If even our religious leaders and experts believe in the happiness lie (the idea that things, people, or events “make” us happy or unhappy), where will our mass ignorance continue to take us? In spite of that dire direction, I know that individuals can break free, and this is why I continually point to the confusion about the source and cause of happiness and pain. Continue reading
Technology is making it possible to present the happiness lie, and the truth about happiness, around the world, live, right from my office.
FREE – Thursday, June 26th, 9PM EST.
We are launching the first ever free world-wide, public webinar on the Alchemy of Love and Joy. I will state the case for the lie and the truth, introduce listeners to the Three Powers you were born with, and offer to walk people through the life-altering practice of Alchemy as well as take questions and answers if there is time. You can participate or just watch and listen from the comfort of your home. If you want to participate you must have a google+ account (they are free here) and a webcam.
To participate, register ahead of time, join here.
This will be the first of many, so be sure to join – you will hear about additional free webinars on love, relationships, career, and inner peace and freedom.
When would you want to know?
Where did you learn about happiness anyway? Scientists don’t understand it. You learned about happiness from family, friends, society, movies, and the media, right? Where did they get it from? The previous generation, and the previous generation…
What if we’ve been living the happiness lie? Continue reading
Happiness Cannot Lead to Sadness
How the truth about happiness is obvious
by Cindy Teevens
A report on CBC news says that, “focusing on what makes you smile for 100 days is full of paradox.”
The article continues, “The happiness challenge is based on the premise that happiness is a choice. It asks participants to submit a photo every day of what made them happy, without trying to make others jealous.”
But the 100happydays website says that, “71% of people who tried to complete this challenge failed and quoted lack of time as the main reason.” The site blames and goads the participants, saying, “These people simply did not have time to be happy. Continue reading
Canadians now rank among the highest users of antidepressants in the world
OTTAWA, ON – The Ottawa Citizen reports that “One of Canada’s top psychiatrists says too many Canadians are treating life’s normal spells of misery …By asking a doctor to make their lives better.” According to the article, Canadians take “twice as many antidepressants as Italians do, and more than Germans or French.” Continue reading
That is one of the most asked questions
at this time in our society…
…as if happiness was a thing, hidden away from you somewhere, and all you need is the right instructions, maybe a map, to find it. Well, there’s good news, good news, and more good news.
- Happiness is not hidden away from you,
- there are instructions and a map, and
- you have been looking in the wrong place, and that is good news because now you can stop.
Most happiness seekers find ways to lower stress, make time for favored activities, seek a love relationship, get a better, higher paying job, take a vacation, buy a new home, have a baby, etc. Notice the common trait and hidden assumption in each one of these: 1) every one is an attempt to change something outside of you, 2) implying that happiness is outside of you, and so therefore you assume need things, people, or events in order to have happiness. But just where does happiness reside? In looking for things, people, or events, we have been missing the obvious. Continue reading
It’s a Question of Life and Death
The real reason why I urge people to seek joy…
Recently someone unsubscribed from my newsletter, politely and usefully leaving the comment that they are “beyond” what I offer. It made me wonder, did they know what is truly available and offered?
Is Alchemy really only about a warm fuzzy feeling? No.
There is a purpose with far more value beyond that mere band aid. Continue reading
Double Rainbows, and Sticks
On January 8th, 2010 a video was posted on YouTube of a man in Yosemite National Park witnessing a complete double rainbow.
As of today it has 33,396,614 views!
(click the picture above to view it)
Many of you have probably seen a double rainbow, and may wonder, what’s the big deal? Other than the fact that at one point the rainbow was complete, going all the way from one side to the other, it was the man’s reaction to the experience that resulted in the video’s wild popularity. He exclaims “Oh my god” over and over, crying and laughing in ecstasy, asking “what does it mean?!” Continue reading
Is Happiness in Your Genes?
What a strange statement to me. Of course, since the “gene connection” was made years ago, we’ve been saying variations of “It’s in you genes” since then; as if you were born that way, there’s no other option, and that’s the beginning and end of it. One of the best things I learned in high school was something more about genes than what scientists and the news usually present: the difference between phenotype and genotype.
At one time, I was deeply involved with horses. Horses are traditionally measured using your hand, from the ground to the top of the shoulders, and so we can describe a horse as being “16 hands high.” Anyway, I was fortunate that my Senior General Science class was about genetics, and I learned that while a horse might have genes that “say” it should be 16 hands high, it might in reality only reach 14 hands high.
That is the phenotype, the actual expression, which may be different from the genotype due to outside, environmental influences. Continue reading
Is it just a cliche, a dead thought? Or is it alive in and
What does “Happiness is Within” mean in your actual life?
If that is truth for you, then it means that
- there is no clinging; you do not need anything nor anyone outside of you,
- your movement of attention when you seek well being is inward, not outward,
- you stop seeking happiness in things, people, or events.
It means equanimity, and the unshakeable peace that comes with it.
When people do think or say the words “Happiness is within,” most are just giving it “lip service.” For those people, it is just a nice theoretical thought they use when it suits them – usually while counseling others. They say it just because it sounds good, and they generally only say it about themselves when things are going well. Few say and uphold it when things go awry. Continue reading