Fear of Surrendering

VIDEO: Cindy discusses resistance itself as being the false “I,” and how to clearly recognize this, without doubt. She works with someone to overcome the fear of the wish to surrender. Notice how the beautiful wish for surrender is grabbed by the “I,” which turns it into a fear.

I am angry at God

Try as hard as you can. Get as adamant as you can that you have to do it your way; that your way is different. Get as defiant as you can. Get as frustrated as you can. Get as angry as you can…until…

Do we have to suffer to awaken?

Considering Eckhart Tolle, and Byron Katie, it may appear that one has to suffer to awaken. But there have been sages who have awakened through love and devotion. What matters is not the suffering or the love that came before, but the surrendering. Surrender your resistance, surrender your very self, surrender your very existence…

Relationship Destroyer: Mind-Reads

VIDEO: Do you have misunderstandings in relationships? Ever wonder, “How did we get here?” Mind reads are relationship destroyers. What are mind-reads? Where do they come from? What to do when someone says “I know what you think, feel, or why you did or said this…” Learn what to do with your own mind-reads.